Find the Positives

When observing or working with others, look for what’s admirable about them. What are they likely proud of? What may be well regarded by the public? If something appeals particularly to you, note that too.

When it’s appropriate, compliment them or otherwise acknowledge what they are doing well. People appreciate that.

A major value of this practice is changing your default from seeing the negatives of others to seeing the positives. Many use negatives to make themselves look better in comparison. But that doesn't help in personal success or in building community.